Wait for it
Would it be okay to go on a tenth anniversary honeymoon while we're working on our debt snowball?
I don't think so. I mean, it's not against the law or anything like that. I just don't think it's a good idea. I wouldn't do it, and I wouldn't suggest taking the trip then rolling it into your debt snowball either. I know this probably sounds mean, but I'm just not a big romantic when it comes to people who are deeply in debt.
A rare exception may be a situation where you have a really small debt snowball and a nice, fat income. But most people in your shoes have average incomes and mountains of debt. On top of that, they want to take a big celebration vacation? I would say no.
At some point you have to stop the spending and concentrate on getting your finances in order. Besides, you've got a lifetime together to take romantic vacations and celebrate your marriage. Just wait until you can afford something like that. Trust me, you'll enjoy it even more!
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