Mia: Do that girl a favor and dump her. That'll free her up to find someone who appreciates her. No woman wants to just be someone's eye candy. She's a real person. Let her find someone who value her and treasure her just the way she is.
Steve: Shallow? Yes, indeed! Make sure you keep your eyes on the women and find a mistake. Then break up with them so they don't waist their time. Eventually you'll grow up, although some never do.
Mia: Don't you dare go over to that man's house! Your subconscious is whispering to you and telling you that something is off — either about the date or the guy himself. Only you know the answer to that. Listen to your gut. If you decide you would like to meet him, make sure you do it in a public place. Tell someone where you're going and give the first and last names of who you'll be meeting to a friend as well as any other information you have about him. When you leave the date, make sure you're not being followed. But whatever you do, don't isolate yourself in that man's house. You need to be where you can get away if you have to.