: The other day at my in-laws', my mother-in-law, father-in-law, "Bert," and I were in their computer room. Bert has pictures of his family posted on his bulletin board.
One of the photos he posted recently I found disturbing. It was of a young, well-endowed woman in her early 20s wearing a tight tube top. What disturbed me was that Bert has printed my 16-year-old daughter's name underneath and the date "2017." When I asked him about it, he said that was what she will look like at 21. I think it's unnerving for a grandfather to be picturing his only granddaughter in such a manner.
How should I broach the subject that the photo needs to come down?
- Concerned Father
from Great Lakes
DEAR CONCERNED FATHER: Grandpa "Bert" appears to be a dirty old man. It would have more impact if you, your wife AND your mother-in-law confront him together. Tell him that putting your daughter's name under the picture was in poor taste and you ALL want the picture with your daughter's name shredded.