When I contacted Amtrak, I was told that "lost tickets are lost money" and that I would have to pay the conductor on the train for the lost tickets. If I found the tickets within a year, I could have a cash refund minus 10 percent, or use them for future travel within that year.

Of course, I will not find those tickets because they went out with the garbage. Is there any suggestion that you could give me so that I do not have to pay twice for the same tickets? I'm really frustrated.

- D.S., Des Moines, Iowa

Answer: Amtrak should be able to reissue your ticket without charging more. In fact, when I reviewed your letter, I thought this must be a simple misunderstanding. How could any travel company issue a paper ticket in 2009?

Then again, we're talking about Amtrak.

Don't get me wrong. I think passenger rail is the future of transportation. Light-rail and high-speed trains are more-efficient, greener alternatives to fossil-fuel-consuming cars and trucks. I take the train whenever it's an option, which, unfortunately, isn't very often.

Virtually all airline tickets are now electronic, meaning that you don't get a real ticket, but a confirmation number. When you arrive at the airport, you check in and are issued a boarding pass by the airline. Amtrak should be able to implement a similar system.

Still, Amtrak is clear about its ticket policy. "Your tickets have value," it warns on its Web site. "Please safeguard your tickets as you would cash. Amtrak is not liable for lost, stolen, misplaced, or destroyed tickets."

I checked into Amtrak's refund rules. When you lose a ticket, Amtrak requires the purchase of a replacement ticket. Some travelers who buy a more expensive ticket are eligible for a partial refund of the second fare by filling out a lost-ticket-refund application, either online or through a station agent.

But there's a $75 service fee and a five-month waiting period, to ensure that the original tickets were never used.

Next time you travel by train, keep your tickets locked up somewhere safe with your passports and other valuables. Treat them as if they're cash. I hope Amtrak can find a better way of handling tickets in the future, but until it does, you have to work within the system.

I contacted Amtrak on your behalf. As a one-time exception to this policy, it offered you and your sister a travel voucher for the total value of the original tickets that were accidentally thrown away.