Where 'gay American' Jim McGreevey is, 10 years on
McGreevey, 57, runs transitional programs for those getting out of prison and returning to Jersey City, where the mayor sees him as a policy and political adviser.
"This is the ideal intersection of faith and service and government policy," McGreevey said in an interview this month.
His speech on Aug. 12, 2004, is "in the rearview mirror," he said, and he does not see himself as a gay rights trailblazer, though he remains the only person to have served as a governor while openly gay. But he and other observers look back on his speech, and his life until then, as a cautionary tale.
When McGreevey officially left office three months after making his announcement, Massachusetts had just become the first state to recognize same-sex marriage. Now, 19 states, including New Jersey, do.
When McGreevey announced he was gay, there were just a handful of openly lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender elected officials in the county. Now there are about 500 by the count of the Gay and Lesbian Victory Fund. In Maine, openly gay U.S. Rep. Mike Michaud is the nominated Democrat for governor.
Though McGreevey's resignation speech is remembered mostly for his coming out - delivered with his wife at his side and including the line, "My truth is that I am a gay American," with undertones of defiance and patriotism - his situation was complicated.
There was upset over his attempt to appoint Golan Cipel - with whom McGreevey later said he had an affair - to be his top homeland security adviser despite Cipel's having few qualifications and being unable to get federal security clearances. And within weeks of McGreevey's announcement, two of his campaign donors pleaded to corruption charges and later served time in prison.
He told the AP this month resigning was the right decision for his family and New Jersey.
After he left office, he studied to become an Episcopalian priest and mostly tried to stay out of public view, though he did write a memoir and promote it with an appearance on The Oprah Winfrey Show. His ex-wife, Dina Matos McGreevey, also wrote a book and appeared on Oprah.
In recent years, McGreevey has been promoting changes to the prison system, an issue that became of interest when he was sent to work in a prison while in seminary school. He wants inmates to have access to drug rehabilitation and job-training programs so they can reinvent themselves when they return to society.
His prison work was the subject last year of a documentary on HBO made by Alexandra Pelosi, daughter of former House Speaker Nancy Pelosi.
He is now executive director of the Jersey City Employment and Training Program, overseeing job-training and prisoner-reentry programs in the state's second-largest city. His salary, which is paid by the city and reimbursed through his program, is $110,000. Jersey City Mayor Steven Fulop said he sometimes relied on McGreevey for political advice.
And McGreevey, who has two daughters, said his life was now honest, though he said he wants to keep details of his private life and the status of his relationship with partner Mark O'Donnell private.
"I can only wish that I had found this path more directly," he said.
Associated Press writer Jill Colvin in Jersey City contributed to this article.