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Sisters Naeemah (left), 27, and Ameerah Khabir, 23, of Philadelphia, are accompanying their father on the hajj, the annual pilgrimage to Mecca.
ALIYA KHABIR / For The Inquirer
Sisters Naeemah (left), 27, and Ameerah Khabir, 23, of Philadelphia, are accompanying their father on the hajj, the annual pilgrimage to Mecca.
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Thoughts on the Fort Hood tragedy


Annette John-Hall: Sisters follow faith on hajj

When Naeemah Khabir heard the news that an Army psychiatrist of Middle Eastern descent was accused in the shooting rampage that killed 13 people at Fort Hood, Texas, one of her first thought was: "Oh, goodness. I bet he's Muslim."

She was right. Maj. Nidal Malik Hasan calls himself a Muslim, as do all the other so-called Muslims who commit murderous acts in the name of Allah.

"Things like this don't help people see Islam in a nonthreatening way," Khabir says.

"You have to pray for someone like that as far as guidance from Allah to rid himself of ill thoughts in the name of Islam."

Already, some critics are blaming diversity, of all things, for the massacre. The Army was too politically correct, one columnist wrote. Too tolerant of anybody else.

Yep, in melting-pot America.

Never mind the thousands of Muslims serving in the military who have put their lives on the line.

Khabir wishes she could explain to people threatened by her faith that her God is one of love and peace, no different from their own.

Which is why after two years of planning, Khabir, 27; her sister, Ameerah, 23; and their father, Ameen Abdul Khabir, from Hunting Park, are making the trip to Mecca, in Saudi Arabia. They will join millions of Muslims from all over the world in the annual pilgrimage, or hajj.

 

Focus on Mecca

The Fort Hood tragedy no doubt will bring a backlash. Ameerah is used to having to defend her faith, but her focus is her transforming journey.

"Just the slightest amount of irritability can throw you off," she says. "Any type of anger can discredit your whole trip."

The Khabirs are already in Mecca, having taken the 13-hour flight with about 150 other Philadelphia-area pilgrims on Tuesday. Now they're preparing for the five-day ritual of the hajj, where masses reenact the story of Abraham and his son Ishmael, with prayer as its centerpiece.

The best way to think of the hajj is as an ultimate New Year's resolution.

"Except you make it to God," Ameerah says, "so you can't go back on your word."

Female friends and family organized a send-off for Naeemah, Ameerah, and other first-time hajjis at the Sister Clara Muhammad School in West Philly. There was plenty of food, fellowship, and advice from women who had already made the journey:

"There's a lot of hurry-up-and-wait, so bring something to read."

"Pack light, because you have to carry everything."

"Mecca has everything a Muslim woman could want. But do not shop till you drop. Remember why you're there."

For many, a hajj is a once-in-a-lifetime journey. Old and sick Muslims don't expect to return.

And many don't.

 

Experienced doubts

Even though they are second-generation Muslims, Naeemah, who earned a master's degree in journalism at Syracuse University, and Ameerah, a graduate of Virginia State University, wondered at first if the hajj was for them.

For one, they're African Americans. And though most of the 125,000 Muslims in the Philadelphia region are black, journeying to the Middle East can be a foreign concept to Americans "who grew up in the 'hood," Naeemah said.

Not only that, but "we associated hajj with something old people did," added Ameerah, laughing. "All the pictures we'd see in National Geographic were of old people sitting in tents."

But as they heard their family and friends testify about how the trip had renewed them, the sisters declared the intention to go and began their research - on YouTube.

Immediately, their faith was put to the test.

Naeemah worked hard to save $3,000 toward the hajj, about half the cost, when "I had to get another apartment and my computer broke down," she recalled. "My hajj account completely fell apart."

She chalked it up to negative forces and refocused her commitment. And "the money just started to come," she said.

Naeemah, Ameerah, and the other hajjis gratefully received gifts, cash, and hugs. They all accepted the prayers that family and friends scribbled in their prayer books for the pilgrims to recite on their behalf once they got to the Holy Land.

Their three-week journey would be life-changing.

"Remember one prayer in Mecca is worth 100,000 anywhere else," said one of their well-wishers. "Be grateful."

 


Contact Annette John-Hall at 215-854-4986 or ajohnhall@phillynews.com.

Comments   
Posted 06:44 AM, 11/15/2009
SBVFT Contributor
"Already, some critics are blaming diversity, of all things, for the massacre. The Army was too politically correct, one columnist wrote. Too tolerant of anybody else." writes Annette.////In a series of meetings during 2008, officials from both Walter Reed and the Uniformed Services University of Health Sciences considered the question of whether then-Capt. Hasan was psychotic. But, according to at least one bigwig at Walter Reed, members of the policy committee wondered "how would it look if we kick out one of the few Muslim residents." ///POLITICAL CORRECTNESS ABSOLUTELY WAS TO BLAME. NICE TRY ANNETTE. COLUMN FAIL.
Posted 09:04 AM, 11/15/2009
CannondaleCutey
Best wishes to the sisters and family as they make their trip.
Posted 09:23 AM, 11/15/2009
Left_Turn
I guess this is more of that hard hitting news that the Inky management is trying to convince the bankruptcy court that we need. Such a waste of paper and money to print this rubbish. Turn the paper over to the creditors if the editors can't tell the difference between news and nonsense.
Posted 11:57 AM, 11/15/2009
sudani joe
@Left_Turn, its called human interest. Not every scintilla of Philly.com has to be "hard hitting news" And given the fact that your commenting in an electronic forum I'm curious as to why you think its a "waste of paper"? You would would have been truer to your snake like nature and corrosive agenda if you would have simply stated you don't care for these people or their faith. But then again that xenophobic racist opinion would have been the real waste of people's time. If over 5 million people globally attend the annual pilgrimage to Mecca I would venture to say their is some interest maybe not yours but some. Perhaps someone of a different hue, paradigm or faith may find this article worth reading. I could only guess how every article would read if you were the standard bearer but I could probably get an inkling if I read archives of news articles from Nazi Germany.
Posted 12:04 PM, 11/15/2009
joedog
"Maj. Nidal Malik Hasan calls himself a Muslim". He did not call himself a Muslim. He is a Muslim. Editor please.
Posted 12:14 PM, 11/15/2009
RudeyObnoxious
It would have been a rather good human interest story too, if the author would have left out the bovine scatology that has nothing to do with two sisters practicing one of the five "pillars" of their faith.
Posted 12:24 PM, 11/15/2009
sudani joe
@dxb123, The United States is widely regarded as a destination country for trafficking in persons, yet the exact number of human trafficking victims within the United States has remained largely undetermined since passage of the Trafficking Victims Protection Act (TVPA) in 2000. Initial estimates cited in the TVPA suggested that approximately 50,000 individuals are trafficked into the United States each year. If you live in a glass house don't drop bombs on other countries. America is always calling other countries out on their human rights track records and she has by far one of the worst. These people account for slave labor as well as girls as young as 11 years old forced into prostitution. They come from China, Central and South America, Mexico, Russia and former Russian states. This hypocritical trend has been exposed since the 60's by two of America's most well known victims, civil rights activist Malcolm X and Martin Luther King. While America was claiming to take the lead in the civilized world she was knee deep in genocide and exploitation from it's own so-called "Bible Belt" to Indo-China (i.e. Cambodia and the Vietnam War) and not much has changed. Here's a website for you http://www.ncjrs.gov/pdffiles1/nij/grants/215475.pdf If I were a Saudi woman their so-called ill treatment of women pails by comparison. Why is it you can call any escort service in America and have sex with obviously desperate women and this be called a free civilized nation (even when Governor's and congressman do it too)
Posted 12:35 PM, 11/15/2009
sudani joe
@joedog, Was Timothy McVeigh who blew up the Alfred P. Murrah Federal Building in downtown Oklahoma City, Oklahoma in 2001 killing 168 innocent men, women and children and injuring more than 680 others a CHRISTIAN? He certainly unabashedly and unremorsefully went to the electric chair claiming to be such.
Posted 02:13 PM, 11/15/2009
Mark Chalupa
Good story, helps me to understand another religion.
Posted 07:24 PM, 11/15/2009
maude
Lousy writing.
Posted 08:10 PM, 11/15/2009
lefty
At what point of the hajj will the multitude of fellow muslims denounce the jahads against werstern nations?
Posted 11:35 PM, 11/15/2009
sudani joe
@jlacerra, I'm the next Dali Lama and how do you say, "It is not an opinion, but established facts. Sorry." Its more like your own contrived fact. Even in traffic court you'd be required to prove your case. Simply saying its so, I'm afraid doesn't make it so. I'm a Muslim and I drive my Christian mother to church on Sunday. I open the door for her when she gets out. I don't bludgeon her over the head when she returns. Furthermore, if someone threaten my mother's life because she wouldn't convert to their religion no matter if they were Christian, Jew or Muslim they'd have a real problem with me and my Christian brother. You people are sickening with your blatant and contrived ignorance. You want hate in this world. You have no use for tolerance and understanding.
Posted 11:39 PM, 11/15/2009
sudani joe
@lefty, Muslim clerics and scholars have always condemn terrorist violence. Check this site out http://www.muhajabah.com/otherscondemn.php
Posted 02:32 AM, 11/16/2009
jlacerra
sudani joe, please reference Robert Spencer's "The Truth About Muhammad, Founder of the World's most Intolerant Religion". If I am in error, it is from this source and others, such as John Keegan, in his "History of Warfare", who mentions this same requirement in his discussion of Muslim's approach to war. joe, you reveal yourself in your "You people are sickening ..." remark's hateful tone. BTW, if you are to be the Dalai Lama, you may want to learn how to spell it.
Posted 03:03 AM, 11/16/2009
jlacerra
sudani joe, thanks for the website you recommended to lefty. It is quite good. I am reminded of this quote, "I am not so senseless as to want war. We want peace and understanding, nothing else..." Adolph Hitler
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