Q: I've had a thing for trashy girls. I love the ones with all kinds of issues, tattoos, lots of drama. My last girlfriend had kids by different men...
ARIES (March 21-April 19). To develop a crush on someone who is unreachable, unknown, or distant is less common. To develop a crush on someone you're already in a committed relationship with is love at its finest.
Question: I have been married 10 years and have two children, 7 and 9. We have no family in our city, and I have very few family members still alive. My husband has a larger family, but they are not very close. My kids love being around extended...
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Question: How do you deal with a wife who doesn't want to announce a pregnancy? She is 11 weeks along and keeps coming up with excuses not to announce. First, she wanted an ultrasound, then she wanted...
ARIES (March 21-April 19). Start with the most crucial thing. If you don't, there may not be enough time. You'll get to the end of today's 1,440 minutes and be disappointed, having missed the whole point.
ARIES (March 21-April 19). The current speed of time is one second per second. Try to stay inside of that, as one might stay inside a car on the freeway; speeding through and yet simultaneously rather still.
ARIES (March 21-April 19). What if you believed that there was nothing wrong with you, that you didn't need to improve a single thing? Then all efforts are optional, a fun experiment. Any benefits are a stroke of felicity.
ARIES (March 21-April 19). You're in learning mode. You'll note how people interact and how they solve problems, and you'll get valuable tips. You'll get a week's worth of experience in one day.
ARIES (March 21-April 19). It's a new year, and that's only one of many good reasons to move the furniture, change the lighting, interrupt your routine and take on a new activity.