Steve & Mia: Husband's too turned on when he tunes in

Q : I HAVE BEEN married for many years, and my husband always tells me I am the only woman in the world for him. Here's the problem: When we're watching television or a movie, if he sees a younger woman, he instantly gets aroused to the point of having to leave the room to relieve himself. This has been going on for many years.

This makes me so uncomfortable. I thought that if you really love someone, you do everything to never make your partner feel so ugly, unwanted, unattractive and ashamed. After witnessing this, it is difficult for me to be intimate with him!

What is my husband thinking about that gets him so out of control? How should I handle this situation? I feel if I say anything to him, he would absolutely deny it.

Steve: This is going on for years and you never mentioned it? Yipes! Time for a chat. Also, if the guy is so aroused he has to "relieve" himself, perhaps he needs to see a doctor. My suggestion: Barring a medical condition, he needs to learn the art of self-control.

Mia: What a pig! I wonder how he'd feel if you did a panty grab every time a hot stud appeared onscreen? I'm not suggesting you resort to this. Counseling is in order. If he's a decent guy, he'll agree. Good luck!

Q: Is it a turn-on for women if a guy is bare down there? A female friend suggested I try it, and it sounds weird to me. But I'll do it if it'll get me more chicks.

Mia: Bald is good. But then, so is bushy. It really depends.

Steve: How would it get you more chicks? By the time they find out, you've already got them, no? Or do you use it as a pickup line? "Hey, honey, did you know I'm shaved?" Let me know if that works.