Dear Abby: Southern belle's manners don't translate up North

DEAR ABBY: I was raised in a home where "Yes, ma'am" and, "No, sir" were expected, and I have used that respectful form of address throughout my life. Yes, I grew up in the South.

Six months ago, my husband and I moved north with our two children for job relocation. My co-workers tell me that they're offended by my constant use of "ma'am" and "sir." I sense that upper management and my supervisor like being addressed that way. But what do you suggest I do with the rest of my co-workers?

- Ol' Fashioned in Ohio

DEAR OL' FASHIONED: I suggest you explain to your co-workers, as you have to me, that using this form of address is a custom you were raised with. Ask them to cut you some slack, because old habits die hard.

DEAR ABBY: I'm 15. A few nights ago, a guy friend of mine asked me to "sext." I went off on him and told him how wrong it was for him to ask me for that.

He has sent me texts apologizing for what he did, but I have ignored them. Should I accept his apology?

- Disappointed In California

DEAR DISAPPOINTED: If you still have feelings for him, give him another chance, but make it clear that if he tries to do that again, you'll end the relationship for good.