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Margaret Cho speaks on kids, comedy and her new show

GLENDALE, Calif. - Stand-up comedian Margaret Cho was never the polite little Asian girl who covered her mouth when she laughed and made straight A's. She was always the opposite.

GLENDALE, Calif. - Stand-up comedian Margaret Cho was never the polite little Asian girl who covered her mouth when she laughed and made straight A's. She was always the opposite.

A rebel whose comedy could shift from caricatures of her Korean parents to raunchy sex tales, Cho has always pushed the envelope.

"I like stand-up comedy because it's very unpredictable, it's very natural," she says seated at the dining table in her publicist's home here.

"I don't really know where it comes from or how I do it. I just kind of GO when I do it. It's a world I'm very familiar with. I've been in comedy for 25 years so that world is very comforting and easy for me to maneuver in, and also I've gotten to an age where I feel like I'm everybody's mom - all the stand-up comics' mom."

Cho was 8 years old when she observed her father watching "Live at the Sunset Strip" with Richard Pryor.

"He was laughing at it and I remember thinking, 'I wish I could make him laugh in the same way, and I'm going to do what this man's doing. I want to impress my father, be like my father in that I want to understand what these jokes are about. I want to tell these jokes. I want somebody to laugh, somebody like my dad to laugh.' So that was majorly important."

She waited only seven years to try it. In the meantime, she was expelled from school because she constantly skipped class and scored terrible grades.

She ended up going to an arts high school, but didn't like that either.

So she dropped out to devote herself to comedy. When she first started, it was pure bliss, she says.

In 1994 she starred on the ABC sitcom "All-American Girl," an experience that proved disheartening both for her and the network.

"I got very frustrated and disillusioned with Hollywood and the way things worked," she says. "That was the time I became more self-destructive and had some trouble with drugs and alcohol, things like that that happen in your 20s when you're using substances in the wrong way. So that's when I had most of my trouble."

The network constantly hassled Cho about her weight.

"I was very anorexic when I was doing 'All-American Girl,' which was frustrating because I never really got that thin," she says laughing.

"But I was very destructive in the way I was treating my body - my diet and exercise - because I was being pressured by the network to lose weight. So in my stand-up comedy there's a lot of commenting on the way we talk about women's bodies and weight."

That's one of the things that attracted her to her latest endeavor, Lifetime's new series "Drop Dead Diva," premiering Sunday. Cho plays the office manager for a chubby attorney who becomes the unknowing vessel for a gorgeous - but dead - blonde.

"Because it's so much about weight and about how women are valued by the way they look and how certain values are placed on certain body types," she says, "it's a really positive portrayal of the way we view our bodies and the ways it's addressed."

Cho, 40, has been with performance artist Al Ridenour since 1999. They've been married for six years.

"We've been together for a long time in terms of Hollywood years. We've been through a lot of stuff," she says. "What's good about it is I travel so much it keeps the time at home together really special, because he stays at home. . . . He takes care of me because I don't know how to do anything. I can't cook, I can't do any of that stuff, so he helps me out a lot."

She says she would like to have children, she and Ridenour have tried unsuccessfully.

"It doesn't mean that I can't adopt. It's not that meaningful for me to physically have them. I think it's fine to adopt them. Older children or those with special needs, to me that seems like an appealing thing. I really love children of all ages." *