Q: I feel really bad. I'm a happily married woman going on seven years, but I keep dreaming about having sex with other men. I wake up and see my wonderful husband sleeping next to me and feel like a total whore. What's wrong with me? Why do I keep having these thoughts?
Q: I thought I could be the cool mom and let my daughter's boyfriend stay with us since he's having problems at home. Even though they are discreet, I know they've had sex under my roof, which weirds me out. I've already told my daughter he could stay until he gets himself together. He's a really nice kid and has had nothing but bad luck in his life. But this is keeping me up at night. My partner says I' m a hypocrite and making too big a deal of this since he and I aren't married. Help!
Editor's note: This week, we respond to reader letters: Q: I'm convinced you either make this [all] up or you pick the most obnoxious, dumb questions. Top or bottom in anal sex? Really? We've fallen so far down the drain it's embarrassing. Can't you save that [stuff] for Penthouse or something? It's really disgusting for a family paper . . . Sorry, but I think you're both slobs.
Q: I'm in a relationship with a prude. She calls me a pervert for wanting to see her naked, which hardly happens anymore. She calls me a pervert when I touch her on the butt. She found an old sex toy I had and threw it away, then called me strange for even having one. When I try to talk with her, she claims she's a lesbian and wants us to be together just to raise our kids. I'm not sure how much longer I can be in a sexless relationship.
Q: My best friend got married two years ago to a really great guy. I was the maid of honor. They had a kid, moved to Jersey, the whole nine yards. One day, I was over there partying with her and her husband, and one thing led to another. It wasn't planned. Now my best friend won't return my calls, although her husband has texted me a few times. I'm not sure what to do.