He's got a guy at home, but one's not enough

Q: I AM A GAY male. My guy has a dating profile on Jack'd, and I have one, too. I sometimes use it when I travel. (I have a block on my guy's so I don't have to see it.)

Anyway, I met a really muscular, good-looking guy on it, and we really hit it off. We went out to eat, and he came back home with me, but nothing happened. We kissed some, and I felt myself getting really excited. Then he left. I'm not sure what happened. I haven't heard from him since. He ignores my texts. What do you think?

Mia: I think you have way more sex than most people I know. Seriously, though, why sweat some guy who doesn't think enough of you to text you back? You're dating online. Those new mobile dating sites are full of hot guys. You mention one specific one but there are lots out there. Just keep it moving, dude.

Besides, don't you already have someone anyway? I'm not trying to judge you, but come on.

Steve: Sounds like you did indeed hit it "off." What you want to do is hit it "on." If he was really interested, you would've heard from him.

Q: I've been dating a man for three weeks now, but one tiny thing bothers me. He has a raspy, deep voice that kind of scares people until they get to know him. He's not a gangster, although he sounds like one to some people. Should I even discuss this with him? I guess it can't be fixed.

Steve: Actually, voices can be fixed with minor surgery, but why bother? Your boyfriend's voice could be a good defense.

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Mia: I hear ya, girl. For me to be attracted to a man, I've got to be into him physically, mentally, and every other way. That includes how he sounds when he drunk-dials me or does late-night pillow talk. I don't want his pitch too high. And I don't want it too deep.

Wait, scratch that last point. I do like a nice, deep, Barry White-sounding voice. But you get what I mean.

If his voice bugs you this much, you've got to move on. The sooner you do it, the better. You don't want to get so emotionally invested that you wake up 10 years from now annoyed as hell at him because you can't stand his low pitch. Keep it moving.

Between them, Steve and Mia have logged more than a few decades in the single-and-dating world. They're also wise to the ways of married life. They don't always agree, but they have plenty of

answers. Contact them at S&M c/o Daily News, 801 Market St., Philadelphia, PA 19107 or steveandmia@phillynews.com.