After caring for his cats, she's owed some scratch
DEAR ABBY: I accepted a request from my brother to watch his cats while he was across the country for a few months.
DEAR ABBY: I accepted a request from my brother to watch his cats while he was across the country for a few months. During that time, one of them matured and started marking his territory all over my house. The dilemma was quickly taken care of with a trip to the vet, after permission from my brother.
My brother now insists that because I accepted responsibility for the cats "in every way" in his absence that I shouldn't expect reimbursement for the professional carpet cleaner I rented or the vet bill I paid for neutering the cat.
Am I out of line to expect to be paid back? We have agreed to abide by your response.
- Christina in Maryland
DEAR CHRISTINA: Tell your brother to start writing the check now. If he'd had to board his cats while he was out of town, it would have cost him a lot more. You were kind to help him out, and he should be ashamed of himself for trying to stiff you. Hisss!
DEAR ABBY: My second wife died last year after 39 years of marriage. She had a beautiful, unique sense of humor.
Three weeks after her funeral, I was walking our dog on the day that would have been our anniversary. As I bent down to pick up the poop, I spotted a quarter on the ground. It was so tarnished with age I couldn't make out the date. But I remembered your "pennies from heaven" letters, so I picked it up.
I hurried home to clean it to see if it was from the year we were married. I was amazed when I discovered it was from the year I was married - but to my first wife.
Like I said, my late wife had a unique sense of humor ...
- SMILING IN NEW JERSEY
DEAR SMILING: I'm sorry for your loss. Two things occur to me. The first is that the quarter was your reward for being a responsible dog owner.
The second is that your late wife may have been trying to "remind" you that you had a love before her, and you may find another one in the future.