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POSTED: Friday, March 22, 2013, 12:46 PM
Philadelphia School District Headquarters. (JONATHAN YU / Staff Photographer)

Why didn't my husband and I choose our local public school, Laura Wheeler Waring, for our son? And why don't we know anyone who does?

That is what reader @emaleigh (more on her and her sister, both public-school graduates here) wanted to know after my last post.

The short answer is I don’t really know. There is probably a doctoral thesis for someone in the question. The longer answer, which involves some guesswork, involves all the same factors that explain why so many people who have choices don’t choose Philadelphia schools. They fear the schools are unsafe. They are people who prize education and fear (too much, in my opinion) that if they don’t find the perfect first grade, their child won’t get into Harvard. Somewhat more legitimately, they fear their kids won’t get an education at all. Add the messy issues of race and class, and you have your answer.

POSTED: Monday, March 18, 2013, 6:53 PM

If you had told me before I became a mother that I would start looking for an elementary school for my son before he turned three years old, I would have laughed.

Me, a graduate of a suburban Catholic School where classes regularly had more than 30 kids in them?

Three kids out of the 100 or so in my grade at Gesu School in University Heights, Ohio, went to Harvard, another went to Princeton and, well, I could go on, but you get the point: My grade school was nothing fancy, and we did just fine.

POSTED: Wednesday, March 6, 2013, 5:58 PM

“Do you want people to pick Philadelphia, or do you want them to pick somewhere else?"

With those words, Eric Santoro, a father whose child was wait-listed in the new lottery instituted for admission to Penn Alexander, perfectly summed up the feeling of so many Philadelphia parents.

(For more on what’s happening at Penn Alexander, check out this report from my Inquirer colleague Kristen Graham.)

About this blog
In her 12 years at the Inquirer, Miriam Hill has written about everything from politics to gourmet chocolate (Like!) and anxious dogs (adorable trouble).

But only one topic has become a passion: the pleasures and challenges of raising a young child in the city.

Not too long after her son was born four years ago, she started hunting around for day care, which triggered her ongoing search for a good primary school. Public, private or charter? Stay in the city or move to the suburbs?

And then there are the more mundane questions, such as how many games can you play while sitting on a stoop?

Please join her in the conversation about raising children in Philadelphia and about making this city better for kids. She is a graduate of the University of Notre Dame, but her only personal obsession is not football, but Bruce Springsteen. As he might have said, it’s hard to be a parent in the city.

You can also follow Miriam on Twitter here.

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