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Letters: Remarks by counselor at La Salle misconstrued

I was very surprised to read the criticism of a counselor at La Salle University's Student Counseling Center regarding college students with poor coping skills as a result of parents who may have played a "rescue" role in their children's lives ("Counselor showed appalling insensitivity," letter, Thursday).

I concur with the counselor's observation that many students have a hard time adjusting to college because they come from a generation of parents (of which I am one) who out of love for their children have tended to protect them from anxiety and failure. The letter writer misconstrued our counselor's comments and proceeded to criticize her.

A counselor needs to appreciate the circumstances that have resulted in students' difficulties to provide effective and supportive intervention. The letter writer implies that a counselor would allow a student to struggle, which is in direct opposition to the reality. A student comes to the counseling center because he or she is "struggling." Our counseling center offers caring, individualized attention to all students seeking counseling that empowers students to develop coping abilities to achieve success in their lives.

Lane B. Neubauer

Associate Dean of Students

Counseling and Health Services

La Salle University

Philadelphia

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Posted 10:53 AM, 11/11/2009
anniea
Oh how you have hit the nail on the head....we are experiencing the same issues with our freshman daughter. She has experienced her share of big changes (moving, changing several schools) and we thought the transition to college would be relatively easy for her. Maybe we shouldn't have said it will be the best 4 years of your life, maybe we should have said the first year was really, really hard! Oh well, live and learn!
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