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In fall 2005, Amy was working in Rutgers University's administrative offices, gearing up to go to grad school for urban planning. Her friend Theresa and Theresa's then-boyfriend, Scott, tried for months to interest her in a setup with Scott's friend. "You'd really hit it off with Eric," Scott kept telling her. Just as persistently, Amy told him she didn't have time for anything except grad school.

Perhaps Scott and Theresa sensed that Amy wasn't telling the whole truth. Turns out she wasn't opposed to meeting people, as long as it happened naturally. The whole setup thing just seemed like too much emotional energy.

Yet her friends kept pestering, and in January 2006, Amy caved.

Eric and Amy first met as part of a group of people and didn't get much chance to talk. But they found each other on MySpace. When the group met up again the next week, Eric and Amy made sure to spend more time talking to each other. Two days later, they went on their first date alone, to dinner and the movies.

"The first time I met him, I thought he was a nice guy, and I was intrigued by him," Amy said. By the end of their first date, Amy knew that she and Eric saw eye-to-eye on some very important things: family and the Phillies.

How does forever sound?

By the time Amy, who is now 27, finished grad school in May 2008 and took an urban-planning job at Group Melvin Design in Woodbury, she and Eric knew they would eventually marry. But Eric, now 29, a traffic coordinator for Comcast Sportsnet, agreed with Amy that she should get settled into her job and save a bit of money first. They were happy, and neither felt in any sort of rush.

That changed just after Christmas. Amy's father, John Sampson, had a minor heart attack.

"That was the reality check I needed," Amy said. She no longer felt like she had all the time in the world.

Amy and Eric decided they wanted to get married the next summer. Amy is a planner, and she knew that in order to have their choice of venues and photographers, they would have to book no later than January. Eric wanted to surprise her with a proposal, but the two agreed they would be engaged by the end of that month.

John Sampson, who made a full recovery, came home from the hospital in mid-January.

On Jan. 22, Amy took the train to Philadelphia after work, and she and Eric went to dinner at the Continental Diner. "It's kind of cold," Eric said afterward. "But do you want to go for a walk?"

He was thrilled when Amy suggested Rittenhouse Square, and Amy started thinking that maybe her proposal was coming. But the longer they walked around without it happening, the more she doubted it - especially when they came to the romantic fountain. And that made her doubt whether they could get married that summer.

Amy's emotions got the better of her. "I said to him, 'Oh, I guess you're not going to propose tonight. This would have been a great opportunity.' "

"I was going to ask what you are doing on Sunday," Eric said.

"Sunday? But this would have been the perfect spot," Amy said. She turned to start walking, and Eric stopped her. When she turned around, he was on one knee.

It was so them

The couple went for a vintage look. Eric wore a pin-striped tux. Amy carried a Venetian lace fan that complemented her dress, and she wore her great-grandmother's ring.

Amy's mother, Mary Sampson, is the church organist and choir director, and her musician friends provided the music. Eric's brother-in-law, Giovanni Cipolla, wrote a classical piece of music, "Il Matrimonio Commincia," for the couple's recessional.

Their 165 guests celebrated at Cafe Fontana in Maple Shade and were treated to Sticky Fingers barbecue sauce as favors.

Amy and Eric love vintage cars, and she surprised him with a 1951 Rolls-Royce to transport them from the wedding to the photo shoot and the reception.

This was unexpected