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Marriage on the rocks, study finds

Research indicates the institution has declined steadily for four decades.

WASHINGTON - The institution of marriage in the United States has steadily declined in strength over the last four decades, according to a report released last month by a panel of scholars and advocates.

The U.S. Marriage Index, the brainchild of David Blankenhorn, president of the Institute for American Values, seeks to quantify the health of marriage in the United States in the same way economists use leading indicators to parse the state of the country's economy.

"We're just proposing a way of numerically capturing these trends so that people can see them," Blankenhorn says.

The index combined five statistics - the percentage of adults between ages 20 and 54 who are married, the percentage of adults who reported being "very happy" with their marriages, the percentage of first marriages intact, the percentage of births to married parents, and the percentage of children living with their own married parents - to reach a composite score illustrating the state of U.S. nuptial unions. In 1970, that score was 76.2; by 2008, it had dropped to 60.3.

Almost 90 percent of children were born to married parents in 1970; last year, the figure was 60 percent. Of adults between ages 20 and 54, 78.6 percent were married in 1970, compared with 57.2 percent in 2008. The portion of first marriages that remained intact dropped from 77.4 percent in 1970 to 61.2 percent last year.

Blankenhorn says the index was born partly out of his frustration with the difficulty of talking publicly about the subject of marriage.

"There's a lot of genuine opinion out there that really marriage is something that we ought to leave to people's private decision-making and it's not society's business to get into," he concedes. "You're going into their bedroom. You're going into their private lifestyle choices. You're going into situations you can't possibly understand."

Blankenhorn takes issue with that viewpoint largely because marriage has such a significant impact on children. He points to statistics showing that children who grow up in homes where their parents are married to each other are, on average, less likely to live in poverty, to have emotional or behavioral problems, to engage in premature sexual activity, to use drugs, or to commit suicide.

"Every single pathology or problem or difficulty a child can experience - every single one - growing up outside of a married-couple home elevates the risk," he says.

Blankenhorn's hope is that the index, a collaborative effort by 15 academics, researchers, and policy experts intended for release every other year, will become a bellwether signaling the direction that marriage is headed in the United States - and that it will galvanize concern and support for the institution.

"It's impossible, really, to make progress unless you have some shared understanding," he says. "There's no disagreement among us about high rates of unemployment - nobody runs around saying it's fine to have 20 percent of us unemployed. But we really are not at that level of agreement about marriage."

Blankenhorn says increases in divorce and in out-of-wedlock childbirth are the two factors that contributed most to the decline in the health of marriage in the last half century. The index also includes 101 suggestions to strengthen marriage in America, written by Blankenhorn and collaborator Linda Malone-Colon of Hampton University in Virginia. Among them: creating community-based marriage-mentoring programs and encouraging government funding of marriage education.

"All we're saying here is, can we just think about that for a minute? Can we do better?" he says. "And would we do better as a country if we did better on this?"

 

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Posted 09:46 AM, 10/28/2009
dartvader
Financial education and mental health services would benefit all with a side effect of reducing two of the major impediments to long, happy marriages.
Posted 10:37 AM, 10/28/2009
luvgia
Been married, been single. Like single way better!
Posted 10:55 AM, 10/28/2009
Big5fan
marriage isn't always easy...but over all it's pretty cool. Nice to have someone committed to you and to grow old with....and vice versa. For me, the single days were more exciting (way more!....haha), but the marriage days are definetly more rewarding.
Posted 11:15 AM, 10/28/2009
MST
I agree with you, Big5Fan. My marrige ended in divorce and it saddens me.
Posted 11:30 AM, 10/28/2009
furiouswon
Marriage is like anything else...it's as good as you make it, and you have to WANT to do it to make it work.
Posted 12:03 PM, 10/28/2009
birdswinbaby
people get married way too young because society presses people into it...i'd be interested in seeing the stats on marriages once the 30-and-under crowd numbers are excluded. im married w/child and loving it. i agree with dart though that financial education is sorely needed throughout society and that is evident in divorce numbers
Posted 04:39 PM, 10/28/2009
MikeP
Just because there are statistical differences between kids raised by a married couple versus those not doesn't mean that there marriage was the reason. Maybe it has more to do with the negative attitude our society has of single parent families. It's people like Blakenhorn that foster this negative perception.
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Posted 06:00 PM, 10/28/2009
Tom M.
MikeP is one again wishing upon a star. Of course the children of single parents are selfish, annoying little punks. So were their parents which is why they got divorced in the first place. Marraige is rewarding but takes a lot of love, respect, and WORK. Things our current hedonist society no longer value. The future looks bleak for lazy, hedonist, gimme other people's money America.
Posted 07:29 PM, 10/28/2009
independent_thinker
Haha, yes, of course, everyone who gets a divorce is an awful person. How astute of you to notice!
Posted 11:32 PM, 10/28/2009
NotTooLate?
Hate to break it to you Tom and Andy... MikeP is right. Correlation does not equal causation. I'm sure I can come up with some set of statistics that say growing up in a 2 parent traditional family correlates with some bad trait.
Posted 12:23 AM, 10/29/2009
Falls Ed
Marriage evolved with humanity because it was the most successful way for us to survive. If single parenting was as viable, it would have been the norm instead of marriage. Today, the importance of the family unit(child and mother and father together)is often ignored. That mindset leads to careless pregnancies or unwise marriages. An attitude that marriage is not important has grown as our culture as a nation has fragmented. Now, marriage is just a political issue(gay marriage and polygamy). Oh well.
Posted 01:02 AM, 10/29/2009
Falls Ed
Hello. Where's my post?
Posted 09:01 AM, 10/29/2009
Eva R. Priestley
Marriage without love, respect, and total commitment is not worth the paper it is written on. For children, it is best to grow up in a loving home where both parents show that commitment and also share their parenting duties. When parents fight and are abusive, it scars their children's lives. And so does divorce, in many cases. Rearing children as a single parent can work, but that parent has to be financially secure and be able to nurture the child/children well, taking over the roles of father and mother. Grandparents can come in handy.
Posted 10:01 AM, 10/29/2009
ratbag
If a two-married-parents household is so important, why do the same people who blather on about its importance also support wars that send away and kill one of the parents? A more nurturing society in general would help all children grow up healthy and educated, regardless of family structure. Health care and money for education would go a long way to help.
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