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TOM GRALISH / Staff Photographer
In a musical tribute to Mary Katherine Ladany , students (from left) Joshua Taylor, Jamil Cephas, Yusuf Coates, Herman Westcott-Havens,and Montez Crump sing "It's So Hard to Say Goodbye to Yesterday." The memorial was at Murrell Dobbins Career and Technical School.
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School says goodbye to beloved teacher

As excited as she was to be starting her senior year, a vapor trail of gloom trailed Shintel Savage through the halls on her first day back at school in September.

"I kept thinking about Ms. Ladany," said Savage. "I thought we should do something for her."

Savage's algebra teacher, Mary Katherine Ladany, was killed in August when a tree limb fell on her while she was running on Forbidden Drive. Although Ladany, 23, had taught at the Murrell Dobbins Career and Technical School for only a year, she had such a profound influence on her students that many, like Savage, credit the teacher with changing their lives.

"She was the one who taught me to believe in myself," said Savage, an ebullient 17-year-old who never liked math until she took Ladany's class. Now, Savage says, she plans to go to medical school.

Yesterday, at a ceremony in Dobbins' stately auditorium, Ladany was honored with songs, poems, prayers, plaques, stories, a torrent of tears, and a few hearty laughs.

Principal Charles M. Whiting called Ladany "a hero" and said, "This morning, we had rain. But it wasn't rain. It was Ms. Ladany crying because she wanted to be here with us."

The remark made a group of students break down, sobbing. Teachers passed around boxes of tissues.

In a musical tribute, five classmates, snapping fingers and crooning a cappella, sang "It's So Hard to Say Goodbye to Yesterday."

Dobbins senior Tyerissa Farris read an original "Ode to Ms. Ladany." As if preaching from a transcendent pulpit, Farris intoned, "She's gone to a place where every day is the month of May."

Several speakers noted that there is no way to make sense of the bizarre accident that took the life of someone with so much intelligence, grace, love, and generosity. An investigation by Fairmount Park officials found that the tree, a tulip poplar, was healthy. Although they have since increased efforts to clear dead limbs, they said, the likelihood of this kind of tragedy happening again is extremely rare.

Since school started, Ladany has been on everyone's mind, said Joanne DiGiuseppe, the counselor for ninth grade, but the depth of the school's loss didn't completely sink in until this memorial was organized.

"I've seen more emotion the last few days leading up to this," DiGiuseppe said. During rehearsals, faculty and students wept. "She really was a great teacher. You say these things after someone dies, but she really was."

A small group of Ladany's relatives, many of whom are educators, attended the ceremony.

Ladany's aunt, Phyllis Hayes, is a kindergarten teacher at Bedminster Elementary School. Ladany's uncle, William Hayes, is principal of Wissahickon High School. Both schools are raising money for a scholarship in their niece's memory, a fund that has already reached $10,000. The money will be awarded to a promising math student at graduation in June.

In a brief statement, Amanda Fegley, one of Ladany's colleagues, offered the students a challenge.

"Ms. Ladany wanted the best from you and for you. In her honor, give your best."

Ladany's father, John, shared insights into his daughter's personal life. She wasn't always as beautiful as in the portrait on their memorial buttons and the plaque that will hang in her honor in the second-floor hallway. "When she was younger, she wore big glasses and had terrible teeth!" he said, eliciting squeals of laughter.

She was a vegetarian who loved crab cakes. A truth-teller who only lied once, as far as he knew, and that was when he asked if he could friend her on Facebook. (She told her parents she didn't use Facebook anymore.) An athlete who ran track and rode horses and a staunch devotee of professional sports. "She was a New York Yankees fan," he admitted. If she were here to witness the World Series, he said, "I think she'd be torn tonight."

Philadelphia Fire Commissioner Lloyd Ayers, a 1969 graduate of Dobbins, was visibly moved by the ceremony. "I've wept for children who have died in fires and for firefighters who have died saving lives, but this teacher . . ." He paused, searching for words. "It just shows how important teachers are in society. They are our children's salvation."

Given a standing ovation, Ladany's mother, Patty, turned to face the crowd of several hundred students, applauded back and blew a kiss.

Shintel Savage, the student who helped organize the event, appeared in a video with two of her classmates, reminiscing about their former teacher.

"She was a hero," the girls say. Now and then, she knew how to shut people up, but nicely. They mimic her tiny, whisper, "Could you please be quiet?"

Off-camera, a teacher asks the girls if there is anything they would like to say to Ladany's parents.

"Not only was she their family," one girl says, "she was ours."

 


Contact staff writer Melissa Dribben at 215-854-2590 or mdribben@phillynews.com.

Comments   
Posted 06:32 AM, 10/29/2009
fortunate1
Wow!
Posted 09:50 AM, 10/29/2009
James
Brillant sendoff!
Posted 10:00 AM, 10/29/2009
ANGRY AL
We've really cheapened the definition of "HERO" here, haven't we? This idiot gets honored for the way she could "shut people up," teaching for a year (but having this TREMENDOUS impact in 180 days.....yeah, right!) and for being dumb enough to jog in hazardous conditions while being oblivious to the world because she had her head plugged into an i-pod. By all means, let's put this one up for the Congressional Medal of Honor! (Hahahahahahaha!!!)
Posted 11:02 AM, 10/29/2009
Blah202
WOW Al, at least have some sympathy for her family. God.
Posted 11:14 AM, 10/29/2009
TeacherFun
Al, i hope u die a cruel death......hopefully some torture involved.
Posted 12:46 PM, 10/29/2009
Ruffian
What a wonderful tribute! Good job, Dobbins!
Posted 05:27 PM, 10/29/2009
JoePa06
This is a wonderful tribute to an excellent human being. It appears that in just 180 days she was able to touch the hearts of her students. She is, in fact, a hero. To Angry Al, the only word that appears to be cheapened in your post is Al.
Posted 05:37 PM, 10/29/2009
extremeteam
You're a loser AL. Just because you yourself are inadequate as a person is no means for you to take it on others whom weren't.
Posted 06:12 PM, 10/29/2009
BKPhillyNJ
RE: Angry Al - You know what's the saddest part about you? You don't have the capacity to understand how a tinge of love, kindness, and sincerity can go a long way. I am unsure what happened to you or what didn't happen to you. And because you can't understand such a love, I am truly sorry. Katie was a beautiful soul. For you to take the extra effort to spread your negativity and disrespect about not only this exceptional spirit, but even towards the mere fragility of life is pretty awful. My heart goes out to you in hopes you'll live otherwise. I know Katie would have been kind to you regardless. And, yeah, she would be the "idiot" who could shut up someone as malicious as you. She just had that sort of courageous yet gentle strength. Rest in peace, Katie. You're an inspiration to everyone, every day, always. Keep on loving, keep on living.
Posted 11:16 PM, 10/30/2009
AHOLMES18
WOW, ANGRY AL FOR U TO SIT THERE AND JUS SAY NEGATIVE THINGS IS REALLY UNCALLED FOR FOR U TO SAY THAT SHE SHOULDNT BE HONOR FOR BEING A TEACHER FOR ONLY 180 DAYS IS CRAZY U CANT REALLY SAY TOO MUCH OF ANYTHING BECAUSE U DIDNT KNOW HER OR ANYTHING ABOUT HER SHE CARED FOR EVERYONE NO MATTER HOW MUCH SHE KNU U BUT U WILL HAVE UR DAY GOD BLESS U...
Posted 05:32 PM, 11/01/2009
The Baron
This young lady made a greater impact in one school year than some people do in a lifetime. Clearly, she inspired her students to be their best. At 23, that was her purpose in life.
Posted 12:19 AM, 11/14/2009
wemissyoukatie
dear "ANGRY AL" - while part of me wants to avoid your comment for how pathetic it is and it's overall ignorance and while i understand you probably may never even see this comment...i can't bear to let someone speak of someone like katie like this and i can't fathom how someone like you who i can only assume knows nothing about katie can have the audacity to call her an idiot! what has she done to be called an idiot? jog in a path known to be a popular jogging path? for wearing an ipod when jogging? (b/c of course who else does that?!)...katie was by all means one of the most humble, sweetest girls you could ever meet...a true friend that deeply, honestly cared for all those around her without an evil bone in her body was she a "hero" in the sense that she literally saved a life? no. and no one in this article claimed that she did...however at the young age of 23 where most students are still finding their paths in life, did she move to a new city by herself to help change the lives of young students? yes. and no one can judge that other than her students themselves that claim that she did...for you to be ignorant enough to think a hero is only one who literally saves a life from death is just pathetic...and gosh to ridicule people for "honoring" a person at that persons memorial service? so unless your worthy of a congressional medal of honor you can't be honored at your own memorial service? God forbid if something happened to one of your loved ones - would you not honor their memory because they didn't get a Congressional Medal of Honor? while i stay happy keeping the wonderful memories of a good friend that i lost in my heart, i also pray for people like you Al - it saddens me that it'll take a personal loss for you to understand the sanctity of life and to keep your idiotic comments to yourself...from the other comments i see here i take solace that you're by yourself on this and everyone else realizes what a wonderful young lady katie was...RIP my dear
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