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Charleeni Ferreira , looking happy in the only publicly available photograph of her, died of abuse at age 10.
Charleeni Ferreira , looking happy in the only publicly available photograph of her, died of abuse at age 10.
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Karen Heller: It's the duty of us all to stop child abuse

When the no-snitch ethic masks abuse by parents, children suffer. Don't hesitate to report it.

Charleeni Ferreira, in the only photograph we have, is apple-cheeked, smiling, wearing a gold crown tinged with pink. She looks, to the camera, to the outside world, like a happy little girl with the future ahead of her.

But that wasn't Charleeni's true life. She was brutalized and tortured by her father and stepmother, police officials charge. She had a head gash so severe that her parents masked it with gauze and hid the wound under a hair weave. A hip was fractured, her ribs broken, her lungs collapsed. She was sexually abused.

Despite the efforts of school nurses, caseworkers, and doctors over the last three years, Charleeni fell through the cracks in the system, to her death. On Wednesday, her short, miserable life of 10 years came to a horrifying end, as she had suspected it might. "I'm going to have a birthday," she told a friend. "Well, maybe not." On Sunday, her father was found hanged with a torn bedsheet in his jail cell.

When a family tortures a child, who becomes responsible for her welfare? "Child abuse can't be investigated unless someone reports it. Unfortunately, we live in a no-snitch culture," says Debra Schilling Wolfe of the University of Pennsylvania's Field Center for Children's Policy, Practice and Research. "And children are afraid to tell. If they do, it's going to get worse."

Since Charleeni's death, friends and neighbors have come forward to allege abuse, all too late to change the outcome.

"This has been preoccupying my thoughts of what we could have done differently," says Anne Marie Ambrose, who became Department of Human Services commissioner in June 2008. "Children are powerless. Our job, as adults, is to make them safe."

"Everybody has to do the right thing, and they have to do it the right way. Sometimes the wrong thing done by two or more people can be catastrophic," says Penn's Richard Gelles, an authority on family violence. He advocates for strict scientific assessments, rather than accepted clinical judgments, and home health visits to document the welfare of children at risk.

"We're trying to raise the public's awareness that this happens," says Deputy Mayor Donald Schwarz, a pediatrician who oversees DHS. "We're encouraging people to report. It's really critical. We're doing everything to improve DHS."

Child advocates argue for more "consent and sharing information between agencies. Right now, we have data in all these separate silos," Wolfe says. Penn is working on a national pilot program in Montgomery County to get schools, government, social agencies, and health officials to ease access so full case studies can be created.

"Society has a responsibility to its children. Parents lie to us. They hide things," says Dr. Cindy Christian of Children's Hospital of Philadelphia. "The abuse and neglect of children in Philadelphia and the country is a public health problem. We give attention to rare diseases that don't affect nearly as many children as abuse and neglect."

Early medical care is akin to early education: It decreases the risks of social pathology. Child abuse correlates, Christian says, "to every bad thing in adulthood - obesity, cancer, heart disease, HIV drug use, depression."

Philadelphia public school students are obligated to see a physician every time they change schools, from elementary to middle to high school. Increased visits to health providers might help detect abuse, as well as prevent other medical issues.

Reporting abuse, instead of telling reporters tales of abuse posthumously, is paramount. Not to do so "is an ethical failure," says bioethicist Art Caplan. "People in the community need to be the eyes and ears to protect kids. When you err on the side of protecting kids, people will forgive you."

"Child welfare is a community response," DHS's Ambrose says. "Everyone can play a part." The next Charleeni should make it to her next birthday, not lie unloved in a morgue. People suspecting abuse are encouraged to contact the state child-abuse hotline; confidentiality is guaranteed: 800-932-0313.

 


Contact columnist Karen Heller at 215-854-2586 or kheller@phillynews.com.

 

Comments   
Posted 12:35 PM, 10/27/2009
DonQ
The "no- snitch" attitude is often fueled by the system letting the abusive parents know the identity of the person reporting abuse. How can anyone in his sane mind inform on a person who is knowingly violent and abusive if there will be no protection for the informant? I would certainly be wary of possible retailation.
Posted 12:52 PM, 10/27/2009
bill at
The local media has told the community they cannot trust the police. To now decry the "no-snitch" mentality they have helped create is disingenous at best. But typical.
Posted 01:49 PM, 10/27/2009
schvaaga
I agree with DonQ,any calls should be confidential. I bet there would be more reports.
Posted 02:17 PM, 10/27/2009
Mark Glaeser
Why fear retaliation - anybody who would abuse a kid is probably too much of a coward to pick on someone their own size.
Posted 02:20 PM, 10/27/2009
hiphophooray
Think about this...You can report a tax cheat to the IRS in complete annonymity. There should be an easy way to do the same for suspected child abuse. And community members DO need to step up. Just like the fire department cannot respond to a fire unless it is reported, the DHS is not an omnipresent "eye in the sky".
Posted 03:08 PM, 10/27/2009
paul66
This is a disgrace. They need to do a better job of screening these 'foster parents' BEFORE they hand over a child. There should be better safeguards for these kids. Unbelievable.
Posted 03:09 PM, 10/27/2009
chrissmith
Ah yes..."no snitch" is serving the black community so well, yet again.
Posted 03:20 PM, 10/27/2009
NeverSunnyInPhiladelphia
Do some research if you're going to write an article! This WAS reported to DHS. The school nurse at the school reported "suspected abuse" in May AND September. DHS investigated and found "no signs of abuse." DHS is a joke just like the City of Philadelphia. A monkey could do a better job. The people who handled this case should be fired but they'd only be replaced but another idiot who doesn't have a clue. The dad took the easy way out. Hope he burns in hell.
Posted 03:31 PM, 10/27/2009
letgolet
There is no disease that affects society more than the effects of childhood sexual abuse. The ramifications that just one instance of abuse has on a child are exponential. We need to help not only these children, but we need to help the unhealthy adults that have been abused themselves. The effects of abuse are cyclical and it is going to take some effort to heal the over 60 million people in the US who are living with these effects. Over 60 million.....that more than the number of people that have been diagnosed with arthritis. Wake up people.....without a doubt you know someone who was abused sexually as a child and you know a perpetrator. If you think you don't know at least one of each....it's because they are both very good at keeping the secret. Help us break the silence visit www.letgoletpeacecomein.org for information and links to help. You will be saving someone's life.
Posted 03:31 PM, 10/27/2009
karbase8
This article makes no sense. The school nurse, caseworker and md did call DHS and report the abuse, but it was DHS who let the case fall through the cracks. As a social worker, I have reported many abuse cases to DHS and DHS did not take the cases seriously and call them unsubstantiated, so to quote DHS as the people in the right here, is totally wrong, people did come forward and report this abuse and nothing was done about by DHS
Posted 03:31 PM, 10/27/2009
karbase8
This article makes no sense. The school nurse, caseworker and md did call DHS and report the abuse, but it was DHS who let the case fall through the cracks. As a social worker, I have reported many abuse cases to DHS and DHS did not take the cases seriously and call them unsubstantiated, so to quote DHS as the people in the right here, is totally wrong, people did come forward and report this abuse and nothing was done about by DHS
Posted 03:31 PM, 10/27/2009
karbase8
This article makes no sense. The school nurse, caseworker and md did call DHS and report the abuse, but it was DHS who let the case fall through the cracks. As a social worker, I have reported many abuse cases to DHS and DHS did not take the cases seriously and call them unsubstantiated, so to quote DHS as the people in the right here, is totally wrong, people did come forward and report this abuse and nothing was done about by DHS
Posted 03:54 PM, 10/27/2009
nephillygirl
Look again at the article: in the 3rd paragraph, Karen Heller specifically notes the efforts of school nurses, caseworkers, and doctors on Charleeni's behalf. The point Karen Heller is trying to make is that others--the neighbors and so-called friends--must have known or strongly suspected abuse, but they made a decision NOT to get involved. As bad as that is, it is really scary that mandated reporters were shrugged off by DHS. Any way you look at it, this child was abused to death, and she was failed by the people closest to her, and by DHS. Nothing has changed since the Kelly case, has it? Meanwhile, I wish the neighbors would just stop the nonsense with the stuffed animals and balloons. Where were you when Charleeni was alive?? That thing that's bothering you? It's called a guilty conscience.
Posted 04:02 PM, 10/27/2009
ardenoid
This is just too sad. How do those shirkers in DHS live with themselves? And why can any sociopath have a child? May Charleeni rest in peace!!!
Posted 04:03 PM, 10/27/2009
pal
WE as a society do not take Child Welfare seriously. Too many people say Well - someone else will notice a report it. Too few people Step Up and take the initiative to report and become involved. The US Society has turned into the "it does not effect me" culture - and look away. --- Thanks for writing this reminder - too bad it was not the Front Page to remind people that they need to Step Up.
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