husbands, just say Noa.

Jennifer Lopez is suing first hubby Ojani Noa to keep him from making their sex life public.

Two years ago, you may recall, Jen won $545,000 in another suit that blocked Noa from publishing a ghostwritten tell-all book.

This suit accuses Noa of intending to sell a movie containing hours of home video, including some sexual honeymoon footage of Jennifer.

She claims he's violating a prior confidentiality agreement - if not common decency.

The pair were married for only 11 months back in 1997, but their union is a good life lesson that a bad decision can still make you sick more than a decade later.

Jennifer wants at least $10 million and a court order preventing Noa and filmmaker Ed Meyer from releasing the material.

Late yesterday, Judge James C. Chalfant issued a temporary restraining order blocking distribution of "The J.Lo and Ojani Noa Story."

The order is in effect until a hearing on whether to extend it is completed. That hearing was scheduled to resume today.

"I'm going to fight this," Noa said of the order.

Madonna to wed Jesus?

After all these years on the big stage, is there anything that can still make Madonna nervous?

Yup. Her boyfriend's parents.

According to BANG Showbiz, Madonna, 51, is set to fly to Brazil to meet Jesus Luz's mother, Cristiane Regina da Silva, and his father, Luis Heitor Pinto da Luz.

Could Madonna be ready to pop the question?

A friend of Jesus, 23, said: "She is slightly on edge. But an engagement could be in the cards."

The friend added: "Madonna really does love and need Jesus - and she does not hold all the power in their relationship. He grew up with strong Christian beliefs.

"He wants to marry and be taken seriously. She doesn't want to lose Jesus, and so the visit to his parents is her way of saying she will make this relationship permanent.

"He wants proof of commitment, and he wants her to make an honest man of him."